Bandits No More

May 31, 2007

My First Church Job

Filed under: Spirituality,United Methodism — rheyduck @ 2:35 am

The summer of 1983 was my last summer before Seminary (I was finishing college in December, and starting seminary in January). Since I was headed to a career in ministry, I figured I ought to get a ministry job. Everyone else seemed to be doing it. Youth Director seemed to be the most common option.

So I did a little research (I knew almost nothing about finding a ministry job). I interviewed at a church in Houston, but they didn’t hire me. I needed a job, so I went back to McDonalds. I worked there since 1978, so it was easy to get my job back.

About a week later I got home from work in mid-afternoon. My mom (I was still living at home) told me Ed Robb had called. He had a job for me. Ed was – and is – the pastor of The Woodlands United Methodist Church, my family church. I was excited. Finally, someone recognized my abilities!

So I called Ed. “Ed. I hear you have a job opening. Tell me about it.”

“Yes, Richard, we do have a job opening this summer.We need a janitor. Would you like to try it?”

So I was janitor at The Woodlands UMC that summer.  Maybe not the most glorious ministry job out there, but I learned a lot about ministry that summer. (Sometimes when I tell the story I tell people I was “Minister of Sanitation.”)

Our annual conference is meeting at TWUMC this year. The church has changed tremendously since I worked there. They moved a few years ago, and have continued to build on ever since. While I did the janitorial work on my own in the summer of 1983, the work this summer is way beyond anything one person could do. The team they have doing the work is doing a great job.

As for the meeting, things are going well. Bishop Will Willimon was our guest preacher – check out Guy Williams for a report.

Oil Change Woes… & Good News

Filed under: Blog post — rheyduck @ 12:39 am

Chris & DavidI got an oil change Saturday before driving off to Annual Conference in Houston. Ordinary auto maintenance. I do it every 3000 miles. So I drove off to Conference.

Today as I went to pick up my dinner, I heard some odd sounds from my engine. Opening the hood I observed that the oil cap was missing and the engine was drenched with oil that had spewed out. What fun. I had the same thing happen with an oil change years ago, but I’d let down my guard and not checked the work of the shop in Pittsburg that did my oil.

It was almost 6, so I whipped out my map of The Woodlands. I found the Pinecroft Express Lube (just north of Lake Woodlands Rd. on the west frontage road of I45. Though it was almost closing time, Chris and David graciously gave me aid. They stuffed a rag (temporary gas gap) in my filler hole, and cleaned my engine. They didn’t charge me a dime. I told them their time was worth something, by they still insisted the work was free.

I don’t find that kind of service every day.

May 23, 2007

The Bishops are Seeking Leverage

In his Christian Chaos: Revolutionizing the Congregation Tom Bandy says,

The primary link between congregation and denomination and denomination is pastoral relations, the key membership of the pastor is with the denominational judicatory, and the most powerful positions in congregation or judicatory are related to personnel. The judicatory knows that by controlling the pastor, it can control the congregation. The congregation knows that by controlling the pastor, they can manipulate the denominational system. (p. 159)

As a pastor this looks like I’m put between a rock and a hard place. It’s sometimes difficult (or when I’m feeling differently I use the word “scary”) to be under the authority of someone who has absolute control over my life. Oh,yes, the bishop doesn’t have control over my family, just where we live, but that has significant influence over my family. I’m one of those odd characters (and I’m sure there are many like me) who perceive a calling to pastor in the United Methodist Church. But that’s not the way the church puts it. As I’ve heard it said by the authorities, “You may be called by God to be a pastor, but only the United Methodist Church can say whether you’re called to be a UM pastor.” While I understand that logic, I have trouble saying, “God, you didn’t communicate properly when you called me.”

Now the bishops who have absolute control over us want more leverage over us. Apparently some of us pastors are incompetent, and the disciplinary promise of a guaranteed appointment is making it hard to dump us. I have no doubt that some pastors are incompetent. Some of us have already reached our “level of incompetence” (to use “Peter Principle” terminology) the first time we tried ushering.

“The greatest drain on our time and energy that keeps us from leading proactively in our mission of making disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world is dealing with ineffective clergy,” said Bishop Robert Schnase (Missouri Area).

“If we were asked, ‘What are the tools you need to do your task?’ — what would those tools be? Redefining guaranteed appointment.”

Look at those first person plural pronouns. Who is the antecedent – who is the “we” in view? Is he saying that incompetent clergy are the “greatest drain” on the bishop’s “mission of making disciples?” Or is it the denomination’s mission – is the UMC as a whole the “we?” Or is he speaking of local congregations as the “we?”

What’s the big deal about guaranteed appointments? After all, few other jobs (outside of government work, that is) have such job security. One difference is that to even get “in,” a pastor has to submit to years of schooling and acquiring thousands of dollars in debt, many levels of interviews, testing and general hoop jumping. Then (unless they have the right connections) they start off at an appointment where they may or may not make enough to support their family. They may also discover that the seminary recommended by their judicatory propagated a notion and practice of pastoral competence at odds with that held by the current bishop or judicatory. Studies show that pastoring is getting harder – no wonder more of us are showing up as incompetent. We give a decade of our life to prepare to answer the church’s call, then more years doing as we’re told (at least we can point at someone who told us to do what we’re doing) and… oops! we’re incompetent.

But do we have an agreed upon understanding of competence? We have some documents working in that direction, but then we also have long-standing doctrinal statements regarding which we lack agreed understanding. We have a denominational mission statement – “To make disciples of Jesus Christ” – but we lack a shared understanding of what a disciple is (not to mention a shared understanding of who or what Jesus Christ is).

The bishops are looking for leverage. Where are they going to find it? Remember what Bandy says. They certainly won’t find it with the congregations. Their main leverage now is with pastors. And they want more – the whole pie, it looks like.

The bishops have suggestions for themselves also:

  • Increase the length of a bishop’s assignment to an episcopal area beyond the current 12 years, saying conferences need longer-term leadership to accomplish goals;
  • Raise the retirement age for bishops by two years, to 68, to ease the growth rate in the number of retired bishops by allowing them to serve longer;
  • Requiring jurisdictional committees on episcopacy to set up an evaluation process for bishops that would review their commitment to the teaching office, vision for the church, prophetic commitment for the transformation of the church and world, passion for unity of the church, and ministry of administration.

I don’t doubt that the bishops are thinking of the good of the church and the accomplishment of our mission as they make these proposals to add to their power. If Bishops were some sort of superior being, not amenable to the possibility of incompetence or a mismatched conference assignment, these would be more effective ideas. But if guaranteed appointments are a bad thing for regular pastors, why aren’t they a bad thing for bishops as well? What’s a bishop to do if after election and assignment to episcopal duties the bishop comes to conclusion the job is not a fit? That a return to the pastorate of a local church would be more suitable?

I have the same the desire the bishops do – a church more focused on making disciples than taking care of itself. Here are some counter – or complement – suggestions:

1. Find a better way to do consultation and include the results in appointment making. I don’t know about other annual conferences, but our system is very opaque. Consideration of family needs is rare (the bishops want to be able to dump pastors “who do not remain available for itinerant ministry” – often a euphemism for pastors whose family needs don’t match a proposed appointment)

2. Develop a shared understanding not only of competence, but apply it with a sensitivity to the challenging congregations out there. I’ve been an “incompetent pastor” before. I was run off from an appointment. Little note was made (as far as I could tell) that the primary reasons for asking for my removal were that I brought in too many neighborhood kids (unchurched kids who didn’t know how to act like retired people), and over spent the nursery budget by $30 one month, or that that congregation had treated every other pastor the same way for the past thirty years. Such a shared understanding won’t work if it’s simply imposed from above.

3. Get clear on our doctrine. There’s certainly no pain-free way to do this. Confessing Movement people, Soul Force people, Spong-ites and others can all point to good reasons why what they represent is true United Methodism. I just don’t see how it will work – how these contradictory visions of the Christian life and discipleship can co-exist in the same church (or power structure). We’ve tried ignoring doctrine and pushing pragmatics for a couple of generations now. While that may be pat of what is going on with the bishops (“We can’t agree about whether homosexual practice is compatible with Christian discipleship or whether Jesus is truly God incarnate, but we can agree that the UMC needs to do a better job making disciples (whatever that means”), I don’t think the doctrinal disputes will quietly go off into a corner and die, drowned by waves of positivity and competence.

4. Don’t use God as a stick. “The Cabinet prayed and you need to go to ______.” The cabinet needs to pray. Big time. They need God’s wisdom. I want them to hear from God. But with the inequities in the system (I think of the contrast between some pastors whose every move includes a large raise and those who are simply told to “bloom where they’re planted,” and the number of African American pastors who are simply moved from one small, struggling church to another). DSs need to tell a pastor not only that they prayed, but also what went into their thinking when they made a particular appointment (assuming that prayer does not negate the need for thinking). Of course, I’m also assuming that DSs will tell the truth.

5. Instead of seeking more power, the bishops need to give up power. Since people – lay and clergy alike – are accustomed to their wielding great power, this will be very difficult. They need to learn to rely on the power of persuasion instead of the power of their position. Let the rank and file Elders, local pastors and laity see not only their deep spirituality (defined by Christ, not the vague amorphous something currently bandied about in US culture) and their own submission to authority (of the Discipline and General Conference). My take on Bishop Huie is that this is how she is operating, though I also have the perception that a fair amount of people, both in the conference leadership and beyond, simply take her to be a normal power-wielding bishop like they’re used to. Bishops are not judged merely by their press releases, but by how the churches under their leadership do. It’s the same with us pastors. As a pastor I am judged by what WE do. I can’t make my congregation do the right thing. I don’t (at least in my best moments) want the power to make my people do the right thing. I have to not only teach them the right thing but persuade them to do it. It’s hard work. I have no doubt that it’s even harder to be a bishop. But that’s no reason to think more power is the solution.

May 16, 2007

What Kind of Church

Filed under: Leadership,Local church,Theology,United Methodism — rheyduck @ 7:29 pm

Reading Bill Easum’s comments on hiring bring to mind the contrast between the Program Based Church and the Team Based Church.

In this piece Easum gives two different models of hiring processes. These models are based on the two kinds of churches. As I reckon my congregation is currently closer to being (or perceived by more people to be) a Program Based Church. Personally, however, I’m attracted to the second model and have been trying to lead the church in that direction since I’ve been here. I recognize that making the transition is very difficult and scary (at least it is to me). When  people used to a Program Based Church encounter elements of the Team Based Church  they  can feel disoriented. “It’s chaos! It’s disorganized! We don’t know what’s going on! No body asked me about this!” are commonly heard phrases.

What are the differences between the two models? The biggest difference comes in the view of ministry. In the Program Based Church, ministry is first done by THE Minister, secondly by the Staff, and thirdly by Volunteers. In the Team Based Church, ministry is done by the members, and led by the staff. In this model, the staff may or may not be paid. The Program Based Church looks for stability and activity. Is the budget healthy? Is the calendar full? Are people doing their jobs? Is attendance up? Are procedures being followed? The Program Based Church tends to summarize its mission as, Doing What We’ve Always Done. While there is nothing wrong with these things, the Team Based Church evaluates by looking at other factors. Are people coming to Christ? Are people growing as Disciples? Are people being equipped for and entering ministry? For the Team Based Church the mission is all about making disciples – whether we do what we’ve always done is mostly irrelevant.

Now, people might very well tell me I’m crazy. I’m used to it. I hear it every day. Of course, since I hear it every day it doesn’t faze me any more. “Don’t you know you live in Pittsburg? This is a small church in a small town. Things will never change.” I’ve been told that many times. I just don’t believe it. Not only does it go against my understanding of what God is up to in Christ and the church, but it also runs counter to my experience.

First, our attendance and participation is way up since I arrived. That’s just not normal in a church and community like this.

Second, God has blessed us with too many skilled people with a heart for ministry and making disciples – both staff and non-staff. Consider Gloria A for a moment. Most folks look at her and say, “She’s the choir/music director.” Some choir directors spend all their time and effort seeking to guard their turf and control things, standing in the way of any changes. It’s part of their job description. Gloria, on the other hand, is constantly doing things outside her job description. Though her primary responsibilities are in the area of music, her heart is for making disciples. She wants more people to come to know Jesus.  I LIKE that. She’s acting like she’s part of a Team Based Church.

You are leaders in this church – whether you have a big title or not. You have influence. People listen to you. What kind of church looks most attractive? What kind of church do you sense God wants your church to be? Why?

May 10, 2007

Cover Your Ears!

How do Christians decide who not to listen to? Which heresies, mistakes or habits take a person beyond the pale?

I received a mailing from UM Action a few days ago complaining about homosexuals being put in charge of worship planning for General Conference. To the UM Action folks it looks like part of the agenda to change the church. I know that such an agenda exists – and don’t support this particular change – but I wonder how different worship planned by a homosexual would be from that planned by a heterosexual. Do we worry about this because this is the favored sin of the month – while we don’t worry about practitioners of other sins?

It’s fairly easy to pick on UM Action at this point. They offend against the practices we currently deem most evil – acts of exclusion. Exclusion is bad, inclusion is good. Our new doctrinal statement, “Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors” is a prime illustration of the position of inclusion in our church. Our old doctrinal statement, including (can we still use that word for such a reactionary document?) such doctrines as the Trinity, Incarnation and Resurrection was implicitly exclusive. Though we did not see ourselves as a “creedal church,” pastors are asked at ordination if they agree with our doctrines and will preach them. Traditional Christianity, with its tinge of the miraculous, seems far-fetched to many. “What do you mean, ‘Jesus is God incarnate?’ That’s just a myth, a metaphor. ‘Raised from the dead?’ We all know dead people stay dead. All that means is that ‘Easter faith’ rose in the hearts of the disciples. ‘The Bible is the Word of God?’ That old sexist book?” It’s much easier to affirm “Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors.” In spite of the apparent openness, however, not all is to be included. Exclusion is out. So if we hear people saying something we take as exclusive, we know that we ought not listen to that person. “Cover your ears!”

I’m a father to three children. I believe in sheltering my children from the evil and bad things of the world. I think it is a good thing for them not to hear what some people have to say. But only to a point. If made a life-long practice, covering their ears will work to their detriment. My strategy instead is to gradually expand what they listen to – while I am with them. If they are going to believe and stand for Jesus and the teachings of the Christian faith (which is not a foregone conclusion for children of believers), they need to learn not only how to articulate the faith for themselves, but how to discern and argue with those who are or appear to be on the outside. It may be that upon engagement, the position presented is to be rejected. But then again, maybe we have something to learn, maybe we need correction. We won’t know until we learn to argue it out.

Argument is hard work. Much harder than just covering our ears or universal inclusion (an irrational position). But it’s worth while, I think. Especially if we’re willing to take the time (years or generations sometimes) that it takes.

May 9, 2007

A Troublesome Conversion?

Filed under: Uncategorized — rheyduck @ 10:41 pm

Some of you have, perhaps, heard of Francis Beckwith’s re-conversion to Roman Catholicism. It’s not unheard of for Protestants to become Catholic. It’s not even that uncommon of late for evangelicals to become Catholic. But when the president of the Evangelical Theological Society converts, it’s unsurprising that many people feel the need to speak out.

In today’s comment at Christianity Today, they include this in their story:

The ETS executive committee regarded Beckwith’s resignation as “appropriate.” The committee’s eight members, including acting president Hassell Bullock of Wheaton College, said in a May 8 statement that ETS membership is not compatible with “wholehearted confessional agreement with the Roman Catholic Church. All ETS members annually must affirm that “the Bible alone and the Bible in its entirety, is the Word of God written and is therefore inerrant in the autographs.” The statement does not say what precisely constitutes “the Bible alone and the Bible in its entirety.” But the ETS executive committee noted that by including the Apocrypha, the Roman Catholic canon differs from what evangelical Protestants recognize. In addition, the committee said Roman Catholics recognize certain extra-biblical statements as infallible, including when the pope speaks ex cathedra. Ex cathedra statements have affirmed Mary’s immaculate conception and her bodily assumption.

Sola Scriptura has long been a cornerstone of Protestant theology. I think that’s a good thing. But I don’t think it can work the way the ETS leadership is trying to make it work. Official Roman Catholic theology has a very high view of scripture. Their reading of scripture is that the infallibility of papal statements ex cathedra can be legitimately from the bible. I’m a Protestant on this issue. I don’t see it there.

But there are other things I don’t see in the text of the bible alone, things that the ETS seems to find there. Most obviously, there is the acceptance of these 66 books and these only that is the centerpiece of their position.  I don’t have any trouble accepting that the Protestant tradition got something right when it so identified the extent of scripture. But they can’t do so by the authority of scripture alone.

I also don’t see any theories about the “autographs” offered in scripture. While we see some images of the text being written (parts of Jeremiah and some of Paul’s epistles come to mind) , no theory of the way their authority arises or functions is offered.

In both these cases, then, at the very least the ETS can be taken to be moving beyond the bible alone – in a way not perceptibly unlike the way Roman Catholics move beyond it.  Surely the ETS has the right to police its own boundaries. I’d just like to see them (I speak as a friendly outsider) use some better arguments.

What’s Wrong with Men?

Filed under: Current events,Leadership,Spirituality,Theology — rheyduck @ 8:21 pm

Clearly something is wrong with men.

Clue #1: In some areas of Muslim culture men have come to understand themselves as so susceptible to the evils of lust that women must be so covered up that they are indistinguishable from moving piles of cloth. While many traditions – including my own – value modesty, some of these folks are clearly scared to death of women.

Clue #2: Well, they’re not scared of all women – only women who are not their own. When women are in their homes with the men to whom they belong, they are not required to be as completely draped.

Clue #3: Men in multiple cultures feel the need to be in charge, simply because they are men. If they’re not in charge they drop out. I see this in some segments of American Christian culture. There are several ways people approach the “man problem:”

  • Men are the only ones qualified to lead in church. Period. Jesus only chose male disciples. Masculine language is used to describe church leaders. Women are supposed to be silent in churches, and not supposed to exercise authority over men.
  • Ditto #1, except we have to make an exception since so many men have not responded to the call. Because the men are delinquent and disobedient, women have to step in and do the work “unnaturally.”
  • While men make up the greatest number of leaders mentioned in the New Testament, women have prominent roles as well. Junia (at least) is numbered among the apostles. Mary Magdalene is commissioned as the first witness of the resurrection (totally scandalous for their culture). Priscilla looks like the lead partner in the ministry team with husband Aquilla. At the least, she seems to be the main speaker and teacher.

Some men seem uncomfortable with this third option. If they find themselves under a woman, they feel like they need to quit and go home. While some of this is likely due to a cultural assignment of particular practices and modes of operating on a gender basis and a subsequent devaluation of practices and modes associated with men, I don’t think this is a fully adequate explanation.

So what do I suggest as a “fully adequate explanation?” I don’t have one. I’d guess that it has something to do with the way power (real and perceived) warps our relationships, both in our families and our churches. We need to feel like we’re in charge (even if we’re not). Jesus (who not only happened to be a human, but also a male human) is Lord of all. Even as he walked the earth, he was Lord. But he didn’t exercise that Lordship as domination. In Mark 10, he taught his followers to reject the domination model of leading/relating in favor of a servant/sacrificial model. Note that he did not reject the dominating model as a masculine (or feminine) model, but as a worldly model.

So we have a choice. When we find ourselves under leaders with whom we have differences, what will we do? Will we play the servant role like Jesus – remembering that he played the role neither as a doormat or mindless stooge? Or will we be like an Ahab – going off to sulk on our beds, angry and sullen because we don’t get our way? Or will we instigate a revolution, seeking to make an imprint of our (correct) personality on our world? I’d like to try Jesus’ way.

Update: Scot McKnight has a good most on the subject over at Jesus Creed.

May 8, 2007

Grace for Preachers & Leaders

Filed under: Current events,Leadership,Spirituality,Theology,United Methodism — rheyduck @ 9:13 pm

Living in the boonies as I do, I frequently have to drive an hour or more to visit people in the hospital. Often I take the time to use my mp3 player. As I drove to Tyler today, Mark Driscoll, pastor of Mars Hill Church in Seattle was up.  His message on Nehemiah 6 dealt with Diversion, Deception and Discouragement. Since he’s preaching through Nehemiah, such a message was to be expected. It sounded like he was living it himself.

Mark told of the huge amount of criticism he’s been getting throughout the years. Just recently he’s gotten  in trouble for talking exclusively of men in ministry. He feels like a ton of bricks has been dropped on his head for his position. He’s also heard that a whole denomination is investigating him – though he is not part of it or any other denomination.

When it comes to women in ministry, I think that’s one of the things my United Methodist Church has read the bible correctly on. When Mark makes comments reflected male only leadership in the church it stands out like a sore thumb to me. But I still listen to Mark Driscoll, find most of his stuff of value, pray for  him, and thank God for putting him and his church on the front lines there in Seattle.  (Listen to him, I think you’ll him.)
If I only listened to people with whom I agree 100% I wouldn’t listen to much of anyone. I know that if 100% agreement – or being right on everything – were the criteria, no one would be listening to me. While discernment may be a lost art, it is essential for Christians, whether in leadership or not. We must be able to measure what we hear by the Bible (I even heard Mark Driscoll say that very thing today). I want my people measuring what I say by the bible. Now if they don’t read their bibles for themselves, or listen only to me, or don’t bring their bibles to church with them, that’ll be kind of difficult.

Pray for us preachers and church leaders. We’re out there trying to obey God. While we hopefully get it right more often than not, chances are pretty good we’ll get at least some things wrong. When you see us face to face, offer us some grace. We need it.

May 2, 2007

Anxiety and Care

Filed under: Current events,Islam,Politics,Spirituality — rheyduck @ 4:51 pm

One of the books I’m reading now is M. Robert Mulholland’s Invitation to a Journey: A Road Map for Spiritual Formation. It’s an excellent little book. On page 86-87, in the midst of his discussion of the peace and rejoicing Paul teaches (and exemplifies) in Philippians 4, he say:

“Care arises when we are driven by the need to order and control our own lives. In a world where such order and control are partial at best, anxious care can become a consuming passion that misshapes all relationships, all events and all activities of one’s life. When this happens, anxiety-driven persons tend to become manipulative and dehmanizing in their relationships with others. Others must conform to their pathological attempts to order the world and maintain control of their lives. Anxiety-driven persons are also compelled to impose their own order upon the events of their lives. Layer upon layer of defenses and securities are constructed to keep the unpredictable and unexpected from intruding into their carefully ordered world.”

“Such persons cannot be the persons God intends them to be. They are imprisoned by the need to maintain control of their existence. Such persons cannot be God’s persons for others. They are captive to the need to protect themselves against others and manipulate others for their own purposes. Such persons cannot be agents of God’s grace to a broken and hurting world. They ar ein bondage to the need to impose their order upon the world.”

“The most tragic aspect of this carefuly constructed matrix of relationships and activities is that it also insulated one from God. In fact, in such lives God most often becomes one more element in the attempt to coerce the world to conform to protective patterns. God becomes not only the defender of the status quo but also, and usually, its reputed author. Anyone or anything that threatens the fragile order and control of life is obviously an enemy of God.”

This struck me as not only relevant to our lives as Christians, but also to relations between America and Islamic countries.  Pressed by the forces of modernization and westernization, some Muslims have become insecure. Lacking security in themselves they are trying to impose that security, using God as a big stick to control their world, whether through imposition of stricter versions of Sharia law, or through conquest of new territories and subjugation of infidels. Being insecure is bad. Being insecure and having weapons, money, and the willingness to use them is dangerous.

But the US isn’t acting much (if any) more secure than some of these folks in the Muslim world. we’re dead set against knowing ourselves, against having a stable identity. Our quest for greater authenticity has resulted in greater and greater fragmentation. In the midst of this confusion we hunger for security. So we seek to tighten up our laws (not Sharia, but equally controlling), and impose our will on the rest of the world.

Maybe someday we’ll actually learn how to trust God.

May 1, 2007

Looking for Youth Workers

Filed under: Leadership,Local church,Spirituality,Youth Ministry — rheyduck @ 1:20 pm

We’re losing our longtime youth director in June as he makes the transition to pastoring. Here are some of the thoughts I’ve had as we figure out what comes next.

Thinking about Youth Ministry

Why churches hire youth leaders:

  • Availability: Volunteers only have so much availability. They have to make a living and support their families. Churches hire people to free them up to spend more time in ministry.
  • Skills – Sometimes a church needs to acquire skills it does not currently have in the membership. This is another common reason to hire someone. We look for someone who brings skills and abilities we lack.

What we require of youth leaders, whether paid or volunteer:

  • Testimony – Do they know Christ? Are they walking with Jesus?

  • Character – Do they exhibit the virtues we look for in a Christian leader?

  • Accountability – Youth ministry is not done in isolation. Those who lead are accountable to the whole church.

WHAT WE NEED:

Knowledge & Skills: Certain knowledge and skills need to be present in the youth leadership team. In some cases all these might reside in a single person. In other cases different people with different skill sets will work to complement each other.

  • Bible & theology: We’re not merely about entertaining or serving youth. Our youth ministry aims to fulfill Jesus’ command to make disciples. Our youth need leaders who know the bible well and can teach it in a way that connects with youth. They must also have a basic grasp of Christian theology, not only so they can teach it, but so they can guide the youth in learning to use theological discernment. A youth leader needs to be able to clearly articulate the basics of the Christian faith and the features of Christian experience. The kids will profit greatly from hearing the leader (or leaders) articulate their own journey to and with Christ.

  • Youth Culture: Because American youth are a multi-billion dollar market, business continues to differentiate them from older generations. Thus youth culture is constantly changing. A Christian youth worker must be willing and able to engage intelligently, sympathetically and Christianly with this culture. In some ways this aspect of youth ministry is akin to being a missionary. This is not a ministry for people who don’t like youth.

  • Programming: Youth ministry has a structure, both an organization of people and a coherent set of activities and events that accomplish the work of disciple making and group building. A person with programming skills helps fit together the other components of youth ministry in way that helps draw youth in, holds their attention, coordinates resources (time, space, money, etc.), so that ministry goals can be met. An additional effect of good programming is that parents know what is happening and feel confident about the ministry.

  • Leadership: “If you want something done right, do it yourself.” When this maxim is combined with the general difficulty of finding volunteers, its not surprising that many youth ministry people are lone rangers. We need a key leader with the ability to draw other adults into the ministry, and equip them with the needed skills. The leader does not need to have all these skills or do all the training personally, but needs to know what is available and connect recruits with learning tools and opportunities. Leadership in youth ministry includes more than running youth meetings and going places. It includes building a team of adults and youth who will join in the ministry. The ministry is too big, too important, to taxing for any one person, however gifted, to do alone. Team building includes the elements of Recruiting leaders, Training leaders, Deploying leaders, and Evaluating leaders.

  • Counseling: The teenage years are times of great change, opportunity and confusion. Our current infatuation with moral relativism does not help. We need youth leaders who are wise and able to give godly counsel to youth. In the vast majority of cases this counseling will not be on the level of requiring professional training. The leader’s lifestyle must exhibit moral integrity and Christian character so the counsel they give will have credibility.

  • Communications: Youth ministry requires frequent and redundant communication with youth, parents and the church. Leaders will need to be able to use phone, email, snail mail, newsletters, etc. to communicate. Good parents really like to know where their kids are and what they’re doing.

These practices are required for a healthy youth ministry:

  • Coordination. Whether the ministry is led by a hired staff person or a group of volunteers, multiple adults will be needed to pull it off. At the very least our Safe Sanctuary Policy mandates two adults with every group. For the sake of effectiveness, we need a variety of adults who will live Christ before the kids so they can see what the Christian life looks like in a variety of personality types. The work of coordination asks questions like: Who will be teaching Sunday school (for the next term, and this Sunday)? Who will be driving to this event? How will we get the supplies we need?

  • Communication: Leaders will need to communicate vision, plans, and news to youth, parents, the church, and the community. This communication lets people know what is happening and also raises support for the ministry.

  • Spiritual Disciplines: By their own lifestyle leaders will model spiritual disciplines. They will each (this cannot be divvied up) engage in bible study, prayer, worship, and other disciplines, training youth in using them also. One consequence of practicing spiritual disciplines will be spiritual discipline – the ability to say Yes and No in accordance with Jesus.

  • Planning: Youth ministry requires both short term and long term planning. Do we know where we’re going? Do we know how we’re going to get there? Planning also includes evaluation – answering the age old question, “Are we there yet?”

  • Teaching: Youth need teaching. They need not only the teaching of details and facts from the bible and the Christian faith, but also practical training in leading a Christian life: How to pray, How to love people like Jesus loved, How to study the bible, How to witness, etc.. Forty minutes of Sunday school a week is not sufficient to teach youth what they need.

  • Wise use of resources: There are never enough resources to do everything we can think of doing in youth ministry. We need leaders who understand how a church budget works and who have the ability to identify and deploy other resources from within the congregation and community. Youth events often happen off site. Your leaders need to be able to plan and coordinate appropriate transportation, food and accommodation. Providing these things is surely beyond the capacity of an individual.

  • Evangelism: A big part of youth ministry is helping kids become followers of Jesus. We cannot assume that just because a kid comes from a Christian family or is in church every Sunday (or is a Church member) that he or she has become a follower of Jesus. They need to learn enough of the faith to respond to God’s invitation. They need loving provocation to take steps of faith. They need role models who will show them what a life of faith looks like. They need people who will answer their questions intelligently, honestly, and in accord with the Christian tradition. Since youth are highly skilled at asking questions we’ve never considered, youth leaders must always be learning. Knowing everything is not a requirement for being a youth leader. Being willing to learn is. The work of evangelism in youth ministry extends beyond the church. We want a youth ministry that will reach beyond our church kids to kids in the community who are not now attached to a church. This requires time spent where the kids are.

  • Punctuality: Timeliness sometimes seems to be out of favor in our culture. Nonetheless, we need leaders who are on time, whether in their attendance at meetings and events, but also in their communication.

  • Dependability: We need leaders that can be counted on. We need people who will keep their word and do their job. While expected of people in paid positions, this is not too much to expect of volunteers.

  • Resourcefulness and Flexibility: Youth ministry is hard work – harder now than it was ten years ago. Leaders need to stay deep in prayer, keep a sense of humor, and surround themselves with support.

Leaders of youth ministry, just as leaders in any other area, need certain general qualifications, particularly with relation to the church.

  • Loyalty: We need leaders who have demonstrated their commitment to the church by regular attendance and participation in worship and other ministries. Youth ministry is part of the general ministry of the church and not something that simply exists on its own.

  • Ability to work with people: Because youth ministry is part of the total ministry of the church, youth leaders must be able to work well with others in the church, including both the staff and volunteer leaders.

  • Commitment to the church’s mission: We want leaders who are committed to the mission of the church. While they will stamp the ministry with the flavor of their own personality and style, the goals they pursue will fit with the mission of bringing people to faith in Christ, helping them grow as disciples, and equipping them for ministry.

  • Attitude: We need leaders with a healthy attitude. While having a positive attitude – toward the church, youth, and life in general – is essential, this does not mean that we want people with fake smiles pasted on their faces. The kind of positive attitude we look for is rooted in faith in Jesus, not mere optimism or positive thinking. The Christian life and ministry can be very difficult. We follow a crucified savior who calls us to take up our crosses and follow him. Yet we also read in scripture that he did it for the joy set before him. A person with a truly positive Christian attitude will not shy away from the truth, but will continually speak the truth in love, with a goal of building people up and forwarding the ministry of the church.

 

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