Bandits No More

March 5, 2010

Thanks! Mom & Dad

Filed under: Uncategorized — rheyduck @ 11:09 pm
From Heyduck Slides

I wouldn’t be here if it weren’t for my parents. While that’s true from a merely biological perspective, it’s also true from many other angles also.

Both my parents instilled curiosity in me.  Some people reckon curiosity a bad thing – they say it “killed the cat.” In my experience curiosity has plenty of dangers, but not as many as not being curious.

My dad fed my curiosity by having a job that required we move regularly and live in interesting places. He also fed it by having his advanced math books on the shelf in our house. I first noticed his calculus books (he was a Navy engineer at the time) when I was in third grade. I could tell they were math books, but also that it was way beyond what I was learning in third grade. I decided I’d understand them someday, eventually leading me to take calculus myself (though I didn’t go as far in math as the engineers do).

My mom was a constant reader. While my dad was at work she’d take us to libraries and have stacks of books around the house. We never lacked for diverse reading material.

Together, my parents regularly took us to interesting places. Museums, zoos, aquaria, historic sites, battlefields, etc., in the US, Japan and Korea.

In addition to curiosity my parents also imparted certain character traits I retain to this day. Though I think he’s better at it than I am, my dad has always exemplified stubborn faithfulness. And my mom has embodied a skepticism, an unwillingness to bow to irrational assertions of authority. Both do so in the context of a foundational commitment to Christ.

Oh, they also did the normal parental stuff – housed me, clothed me, kept me fed, paid for most of my education. I’m thankful for all that. But the more personal stuff I mentioned above – that’s what I’m most thankful for.

Thanks Mom & Dad!

March 2, 2010

Thanks! J.D. Phillips

Filed under: Uncategorized — rheyduck @ 9:36 pm

If you want to find a model of encouragement, a modern day Barnabas, take a look at Dr. J.D. Phillips, pastor of Spring Woods United Methodist Church in Houston. I served as J.D.’s associate from 1998-2003. I’ve never known anyone who better exemplified an encouraging spirit.

J.D. encouraged people to their face. He’d affirm your words and actions. He’d freely speak his appreciation.

J.D. also encouraged people behind their backs. Have you ever known a back-stabbing gossip? Someone who would spread nasty, vicious tid-bits about you whenever you weren’t around? A person who went out of his way to spread news of your failures and failings? J.D.’s exactly the opposite. In the years I’ve known him, he’d go out of his way to spread good things about people. Besides affirming me to my face, he’d call my parents and affirm me to them.

I owe a lot to J.D. I owe him for what he taught me about encouraging people (though I still have so much to learn). I owe him for the blessing he was to me over and over again through the years.

Thanks, J.D.!

February 19, 2010

Addiction

Filed under: Spirituality — rheyduck @ 11:48 pm

Since addiction is in the news today, I thought it wouldn’t hurt to implicate myself.

I’ve given up an addiction for Lent. Before I gave it up, I knew it was something I did just about every day. It’s an addiction that didn’t hurt anyone other than me. As far as I know, not only is it not illegal anywhere, it is almost nowhere, these days, even frowned upon. It’s completely harmless. I might even exaggerate a tiny bit and say everyone does it. But I gave it up.

I notice that my thoughts keep turning to this activity. I think through doing it again. But it’s more than my thoughts. My body wants to do it. My hands act like they have minds of their own. They want to do it.

Why not just give in and do it, since it’s harmless? I’m giving it up because it’s a waste of a limited resource – time. But that’s not the whole of it. It’s not always a waste of time – it’s something I can do while doing something else, even some productive things. I can divide my mind and use most of my mind on what is good, needing only a small portion for this harmless activity. At least that’s what I tell myself.

What can I do when I feel the urge, whether in my mind or in my hands? Do I agonize over my little desire? I could. I could play over and over my memories of doing this activity. But there’s another option. When I fast, I use the hunger pangs to remind me to pray, to seek God. I can use these inklings of desire to direct me to God, to seek his mercy, to pray for those in need.

What harmless activity had me in its grip? Something that will put me on the news with the other addicts? I don’t think so. It’s only computer solitaire. Klondike, to be more specific. Completely harmless. Yet completely a waste of time for me. Surely worth quitting for Lent.

February 4, 2010

The Mission and the Mission Field

Filed under: Uncategorized — rheyduck @ 6:08 pm

One of the books I’m reading now is A New Kind of Church: A Systems Approach, by Dan R. Dick and Evelyn Burry. In the first chapter they contrast the approaches of Jesus and Paul. Very briefly, some of the contrasts are:

  • Jesus was highly mobile, regularly going out to the people. Paul built stationary churches that sought to draw people in.
  • Jesus used a teacher/disciple model. Paul used a shepherd/flock model.
  • Jesus focused on people’s relationship with God. Paul focused on people’s relationship with the congregation.
  • Jesus frequently broke with tradition. Paul was bound by tradition.

Dick and Burry reject the easy “Jesus – good, Paul – bad” assessment some might leap to. They see Paul’s model as intended to exemplify, express and extend Jesus’ model. They use this contrast to discuss current United Methodist church practice, which they say more nearly approximates Paul’s model. We build churches, invest heavily in elaborate buildings that need constant maintenance, have clear structures of authority and rules for who can do ministry and how they can do it, expect the people to come to us, and operate within set hours.

Two thoughts come immediately to mind. First, the focus on Jesus as tradition-breaker leads to a marginalization of the importance of his context. In spite of Jesus’ breaks with tradition, his moves made sense within the wider Jewish context. In spite of his differences with the tradition, his words and actions were predicated on that tradition and made sense within it. He was not starting a new religion (to speak anachronistically, yet in a way popular today), but taking the next step in God’s ongoing activity to save the world through his people Israel.

This leads to the second thought. When we read the Gospels, we see Jesus operating in Galilee, Samaria and Judea. He spoke to the poor and the rich. He dealt with insiders and outsiders. It’s easy to judge from this that he “went to all people.” But he didn’t. Though there a few exceptions, almost all his work was done in an area in which the tradition we call Judaism was “established,” or taken for granted. The Romans might have ultimate authority, Greco-Roman culture may be intruding, but his audience was at least on the periphery of the operations of the Jewish tradition. When he spoke or acted, his words and deeds could be understood within that tradition.

Paul’s journeys took him into very different settings. In Asia, Galatia, Achaia and other Roman provinces he was able to find pockets of the Jewish tradition, centered on synagogues. He habitually (though as with Jesus there were a few exceptions) that he began his ministry in each new locale. As a cultural outsider, he could find in the synagogue an audience that could understand the moves he made in bringing Jesus into the Jewish tradition. Like Jesus, his action is not best understood as starting a new religion, but as making a move in carrying out a revised interpretation of the tradition from Abraham and Moses.

A third thought, that I won’t explore with depth, is that their characterization of the Paul Model seems heavily weighted toward the Pauline ecclesiology depicted in the Pastorals, edging over into what some call “early Catholicism.” Finding the center of Paul’s model there gives too little attention to his missionary ethos.

I understand the desire of Dick and Burry to transition in United Methodism from what they call the Pauline Model to the Jesus Model. Our churches are too building- centered. We are weighed down with excessive bureaucracy and rules. We too often sit in our buildings and just expect people to show up, instead of going out where the people are. If reversing each of those situations could be as simple as changing from a Paul Model to a Jesus Model, I’d be all for it. But I don’t think it’s that simple.

A primary complexity is that our social setting is more like Paul’s than Jesus’s. Where we could once describe America as a place where Christianity was the established religion, a place where even non-participants knew enough of the tradition that our moves made some sense, that is no longer the case. United Methodist congregations and people still want to believe we operate in a Christian country and society, a place where we can invite our communities to “Come Home for Christmas.” For the majority that have never thought of “church” as “home” this makes no sense. Our era is much more like Paul’s. Today, as did Paul in his journeys, we see gatherings and little enclaves of participants in the Christian tradition scattered as islands in a sea of non-participants.

Another book I’m reading now is Souls in Transition: The Religious & Spiritual Lives of Emerging Adults. After reviewing the results of their survey of the cultural attitudes and practices of this demographic segment, they shift to discussing the religious implications. Prefacing their remarks they say,

Religious faith and practice generally associate with settled lives and tend to be disrupted by social, institutional, and geographical transitions. This connection between religious and other kinds of disruptions is a broad sociological fact.

In the context of my current discussion, I take this to be a claim that religion correlates with stability and connection to established traditions. I’m inclined to think that a decline in church participation by the young adults in their survey is directly related to the presence (dominance) of churches that act as establishment institutions while the experienced reality of their participants is disestablishment. The assumed establishment (at-home-ness) of the churches, being dissonant with lived experience leads to more easily dropping the faith. Establishment mentality, of one flavor or another, is common to both mainline and evangelical churches (the branches with which I have the greatest familiarity).

Given our diaspora-like social setting, merely going to the people is bound to be misunderstood. Sure, they can take us to be do-gooders, social reformers, nice folks. But the Christian tradition (like the Jewish tradition), cannot be reduced to those things. In this setting we need to take up again the Jesus model of teacher/disciple – the very model Paul experienced in his relationship with Barnabas and later duplicated with people like Timothy.

Apprentice-based Christianity – returning the practices of Jesus and Paul – will do several things.

First, apprentice-based Christian formation (Dallas Willard likes to use “apprentice” thinking) will be rooted in the Christian tradition. It will be an intentional growth into the work of God through history, from Abraham, through Moses and the people of Israel, Jesus and the disciples, the early church and on through the ages. Since it will be engagement with such a large tradition, there will be no quick way to make it happen.

Second, apprentice-based Christian formation will shape more than beliefs. Christian beliefs are always necessarily tied into and mutually implicated with practices and desires. We’ve tried raising a generation of Christians on beliefs alone – and even with great, awesome, true, wholesome beliefs, we’ve failed miserably. The Christian faith is a network of relationships through Christ – with God, with others, with ourselves, with the world.

Third, apprentice-based Christian formation will highlight the difference with the world. This isn’t the fortress or crusade mentality, but the conviction that the Christian tradition with its practices, community and telos is different than that of surrounding society. Teachers will escort their apprentices through encounters with the world so they can experience this difference first hand, and then debrief the experience with them. The goal will not be to inculcate a world-rejecting ethos, but rather a willingness to be different along with a broken heart for the inhabitants of the world.

Fourthly, drawing new people to the faith in this model is not a matter of setting up shop and waiting for outsiders who feel an innate need for church (or “spirituality”) to just show up. Rather, we do our apprenticeship with one foot in the Kingdom, the other in the world. While increasingly rooted and grown up in Christ, we also deepen our relationship with outsiders, letting Jesus demonstrate his reality in our words, actions, and, most importantly, our weakness (that is, our very real dependence on the Spirit all the time).

Fifthly, and finally – since I need to stop somewhere today – this way of Christian formation can be highly individualized. Since each of us are already not only in some relation to the Christian tradition, but also a variety of relationships with different segments of the world, we each have different needs. Our different places in life and different sets of experiences require individualized training in faith. While larger groups will still have their place in Christian formation, there will need to be a shift away from, “You’re this age, so you go to this class and learn from this quarterly produced in Nashville” to “These are some of the options we have this quarter, and having considered your growth in faith over the past year, these two would be good options to help you take your next step with Christ.”

January 20, 2010

What Kind?

Filed under: Leadership, Local church, Spirituality, church growth — rheyduck @ 3:45 am

Bishop Will Willimon passes along some good questions from Lloyd John Ogilvie:

  1. What sort of people does Christ want to deploy in the world?
  2. What sort of church do we need to produce those people?
  3. What sort of leaders do we need to produce that sort of church?
  4. What sort of pastor do I need to be to produce that sort of leaders in that sort of church?

First, I like the teleological approach. We’re going somewhere. We have ends in sight.

Second, these are complex ends. My telos as a pastor doesn’t end with me. It is connected with the teloi of leaders, the church and its people.

Third, I can ask these questions wherever I am in relation to those ends, wherever I am situated in time and space (as long as I ecclesially located). When I first become a pastor of a given church, I can ask these questions. When I’ve been at a church for X years, I can still ask these questions. They will never be outmoded.

Fourth, my asking these questions is not a solo activity. While I have some insight into what kind of pastor I need to be to to produce a particular kind of leader to produce a particular kind of church that produces a particular kind of people, so do the people around me. I am not sitting at the top of the heap commanding all around me.

Fifth, and this aspect appeals to my personality type, these are general questions. They are not tied to any particular church model or program structure. As people questions, they are framed to prioritize people over structures, opening the way to flexibility in methodology.

Finally, the questions begin and end with Jesus. We pursue what Jesus wants. We want to achieve his purposes his way. What will it take to make us those kind of people?

January 5, 2010

Two things to avoid

Filed under: Uncategorized — rheyduck @ 2:51 pm

Passionless Christianity and Brainless Christianity are two things to be avoided. Two additional things to avoid are merely being passionate and merely being brainy.

January 2, 2010

Perfection avoided

Filed under: Spirituality — rheyduck @ 9:05 pm

Have you ever noticed easily some instances of the Perfect are shattered? Since it’s already January second, it’s already too late for me to have a record of blogging everyday of the year. I can blog for the next 365 consecutive days, but since I didn’t blog yesterday, it’s impossible for me to blog every day.

Several years ago Cal Ripken beat Lou Gehrig for consecutive games played. That was a tough record to beat. Playing that many consecutive games requires sustained health, enough ability that the manager would want to play you, a desire to keep playing through thick and thin. Most players just don’t make it. All Ripken had to do to end his pursuit of the record was miss a game. A single game would do it, would make his quest for naught.

From another angle, Ripken’s record isn’t all that stupendous. Sure, it’ll be hard to break, but it is breakable. Another player can exercise the same desire and stamina. And how many World Series did Ripken bring to Baltimore during his run? Another record, one that won’t be broken (unless the game is redefined) is Cy Young’s 511 victories. Now the really good guys rack up 300 in a career. 500? I just don’t see it. But his record isn’t perfect. Not only does he have the record for wins. He also has the record for losses.

What kind of perfection are we looking for – if we are? I’d suggest that we aim for something that takes the best of Ripken & Young. From Ripken, we take the stamina, the ability to keep going, even when each day is essentially the same. Staying faithful without the glitz and glory is a good thing. From Young, we take the ability not just to win, but to get up and play again after losing. Younger never seems to have thought that yesterday’s loss was a harbinger of a loss today. Even though he had failed, he still thought winning was possible.

Chances are that we’ll fail God. We’ll mess up. We’ll fall short. Oh, maybe it won’t be the big notorious sin, the sin that torpedoes our life. Maybe it’ll just be a case of chickening out, of avoiding an opportunity God has sent out way. Oops. Not perfect. So why even try? But when we see the bigger picture of who God is and what he’s up to in Jesus, it’s always worth our while to get up and try again, to aim again for faithfulness.

December 24, 2009

Getting Christmas

Filed under: Uncategorized — rheyduck @ 10:39 pm

Our local school has kids write letters to Santa each year. Most of them end up submitted for inclusion in the local paper. One written by one of our church kids didn’t make the cut. Here it is:

Dear Santa
I like to help people on Christmas . It is fun and I think it is nice to do stuff for people who don’t have anything. I want two presents for Christmas a American girl and a puppy will you bring the rest of my presents to someone who doesn’t  get anything.
Love Gracie
Gracie’s mother leads our church’s mission outreach. Her desire to “do stuff for people who don’t have anything” is what her parents have taught her, not just by word, but by example. She’s already learned that “it’s more blessed to give than to receive.”
Gracie’s not from a rich family, one of those that has piles of stuff and an infinite supply of money. Her dad’s currently unemployed and looking for a job. But because she loves Jesus, she loves people, regardless of her own need.
Way to go, Gracie!

December 14, 2009

Only Rabbis?

Filed under: Uncategorized — rheyduck @ 9:45 pm

In her most recent online letter, Bishop Huie has this:

Dr. Bill Carter, a Presbyterian pastor, tells a story about a rabbi who was approached by one of his students. The student said, “Rabbi, I love you.” The rabbi said, “Oh, really? Well, do you know what troubles me most?” The student said, “No, I don’t know what troubles you the most.” The rabbi said, “How can you say that you love me if you don’t know what troubles me most?”

Is it my imagination or do we tend to only tell this kind of story about Rabbis? If so, is it because other “religious leaders,” i.e., Christian pastor, are always supposed to be nice, and this kind of response has a little too much bite to be nice?

What do you think?

More on Generosity

Filed under: Economics, Generosity, Immanuel Kant, Seth Godin — rheyduck @ 8:45 pm

Ran across this from Seth Godin’s new (free, online) book:

When the economy tanks, it’s natural to think of yourself first. You have a family to feed a mortgage to pay. Getting more appears to be the order of business.

It turns out that the connected economy doesn’t respect this natural instinct. Instead, we’re rewarded for being generous. Generous with our time and money but most important
generous with our art.

I believe this is true not only for individuals and families, but for most levels of organization (churches, businesses, countries, etc.). When the economy gets tough, we need to look out for #1. Inasmuch as I am responsible for myself, my family, my business, my church, this makes perfect sense. After I get myself taken care of, then I will be in a place of strength and plenty and actually able to do something for other people.

We even have a little saying we can fit with this notion: “You can’t give what you don’t have.” There are some organizations out there that are really doing great work for people. I wish I could give them a million dollars. But I don’t have a million dollars. So, going by this way of thinking, if I want to give them a million dollars, I first need to get myself a million dollars.

Obviously we’ve moved beyond the appearance of economic distress now. But then that’s the difficulty for many of us. We know there is distress out there. We know people who have lost jobs. We’ve even had to change some of out plans, maybe even cut back on our spending. But most of us here in the USA are still ok. We still have a place to live, clothes to wear, and food to eat. By world standards we’re still pretty wealthy. By whose standards do we judge ourselves wealthy enough before we start being generous?

When we wait until we first secure ourselves (too often by a very high standard), we also tend to become less inclined to be generous. We worked hard to get where we are. The folks out there who might benefit from our largesse – how hard have they worked? How deserving are they?

It is sometimes the case that we become successful because we are generous rather than in spite of it. As a leader of an organization that seeks to influence people toward Jesus, I like this part of what Godin says:

If you make a difference, people will gravitate to you. They want to engage, to interact and to get you more involved.

Give to get. A variant of the Prosperity “gospel.” Let’s make it happen! Toot, toot, here I am! I’m being generous, flock to me! Things certainly work that way sometimes. I know I’m more attracted to the generous than to the stingy. Giving is good. Giving “works.”

But when this is my way of thinking, I’ve again lapsed into taking care of myself first, I just happen to be applying a different strategy. Jesus knew something of this, and said that those who profited from their acts of righteousness here and now (i.e., did them to be “seen by others”) have received their reward fully. Jesus advised doing works of mercy and generosity in secret, not even letting your left hand know what your right hand is doing. Surely this is not the first evidence you’ve had that Jesus is a trouble maker?

So why be generous – and why be generous even when you maybe cannot afford to be generous? If we were mere Kantians, we might say to do it just because it’s the right thing to do. As legislators of universal law, we can happily pass the maxim that all ought always to be generous. Often as not then, we might find ourselves recipients of generosity.

But I try hard not to be a Kantian. Instead, I find myself in a story where I am a recipient of mind-blowing generosity. God has given a gift well beyond any surplus. Jesus – who came for a broken damaged sinner like me – was generous far beyond what I deserved. Since that’s not the end of the story – either for Jesus (raised from the dead, now ruling over creation) or for me (I’m still walking, talking and typing) – I am a player in that same story. As a recipient of a free gift, I am taught by that very gift to extend it to others. I give grace out of gratitude (you may note those two ‘g’ words are etymologically related), I give love because I am loved. As part of the health Jesus gives me (consider the context of what Peter is talking about when he speaks of “salvation in Acts 4:12), I am healthy to the extent I share with others.

So, being generous is good for me. But that’s the smaller thing. Being generous is good for others – and good for God’s kingdom I claim to inhabit and for the story in which I live.

How about your story? Is generosity a logical move in your storyline?

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